When you hear the word cute, you likely get visions of puppy dogs and kittens. If you like a guy, and he describes you as “cute” is that really something you should be flattered about? What does it mean when a guy calls you cute?
Is it a secret code like “She has a really good personality?” Cute is in the eye of the beholder. It is an adjective typically considered about things that make your heart warm, so there can’t be anything wrong with it, can there?
As a woman, you want to hear words that describe you like hot, gorgeous, delicious, but cute, just doesn’t fall in the desirable category. If you are concerned that guys typically refer to you as cute and that it isn’t a good adjective, take heart.
Cute is something more than just the way that you look. Cute is an adjective that is more about the total package than simply how pretty you are. Every guy thinks they want a gorgeous woman on their arm, but what they don’t understand is that cute girls are the most attractive woman on earth.
20 advantages that cute has over gorgeous
Cute girls rule! They are not only pretty but kind and smart too. When a guy is looking for a girl to be in a relationship with, the cute girls are the ones who last. These 20 advantages leave you feeling good when your crush calls you cute.
#1 You don’t always have to be perfect. By definition, cute things are not perfect. It is in their imperfection where the “cuteness” is found. If someone tells you that you are cute, that means you are real and really awesome just the way you are.
#2 You know you are fun to be around. Cute girls are the ones always having fun. They aren’t the wallflowers or the posers, they are the ones in the mix having a good time, talking to everyone and being the life of the party.
A cute girl has nothing to prove or anything holding her back, like smeared eyeliner, to stop her from having the time of her life.
#3 You have a cheerful attitude. There is nothing cute about a bitch. If someone says you are cute, it means you have a cheery attitude, not a stuck up one. You make people happy just by watching you bask in the joy around you. Being cute is the best!
#4 Your personality is likely chill. Cute girls are not high strung, and they don’t get upset about every little thing. There is nothing cute about a personality that is controlling, snotty, or uptight. Your attitude is just right, and every guy wants to be around you.
#5 You are not high maintenance. Every guy thinks they want the hottest girl in the room only to find she is typically the highest maintenance. There is nothing fun or exciting about a girl who is high maintenance. If a guy says you are cute, he means you know how just to roll with it, don’t take things too seriously, and can just go with the flow.
#6 You can go from makeup-free to heels and be a totally different person. Hot girls have nowhere to go but down. If a guy calls you cute, he has probably only seen the casual side of you. That leaves plenty of room for you to show you your other sides like beautiful, sexy, seductive, and smart.
Cute girls have a wide range of personality styles and looks, and are way more textured than someone who is just there to look at.
#7 You have a wonderful smile. You know what isn’t cute? A girl who never smiles or knows how to have fun. If a guy describes you as cute, it means you smile a lot and you have an engaging presence. That is way more important than being gorgeous.
#8 You get along with people. Girls who can’t get along with other people, especially other girls, are anything but cute. Typically, a girl who’s labeled as cute can get along with anyone because they aren’t jealous, trying to prove anything, or putting others down to feel good about themselves. Cute girls just know how to hang.
#9 You aren’t a Debby Downer. There is nothing cute about someone who’s never happy. Cute girls don’t go around telling you their tale of woe or trying to elicit sympathy. They look on the bright side of things and are the person that you want around when you need a pick-me-up.
#10 You can be hot, but hot girls are rarely cute. Cute does not negate that you are hot. You can be hot and cute. If someone calls you hot, it is unlikely that you can be cute too. So if someone is calling you cute, don’t assume he doesn’t also think that you are hot.
#11 You are the girl that mother-in-laws dream of. Cute girls get along with mother-in-laws. Why? They are respectful and roll with it. If your mother-in-law is being a real bitch, you just grin and ignore it. There is nothing cute about a girl who needs the attention of their mate so much that they start drama or pit one family member against another.
#12 You are more marriage material. Everyone wants to be with someone who smiles and makes their heart warm, not someone who is pretentious or not real. A cute girl is real and really someone you want to spend the rest of your life with.
#13 You will age with grace. Cute girls don’t peter out in the ninth grade. A cute girl is naturally pretty and doesn’t have to go to great lengths to make herself appear to be someone she is not. She may or may not be the guy that everyone is waiting in line to date, but what is certain, is at the high school reunion, the cute girl hears, “You haven’t aged at all.”
#14 No one expects you to be someone you aren’t. Everyone loves the cute girl because of who she really is, not someone she is pretending to be. No hidden agenda, guys date the cute girl because they are fun and engaging. No one is expecting you to be anyone but you.
#15 You are independent. Being cute also means being sassy, sarcastic, and witty. It isn’t all about puppy dogs and droopy eyes. Cute can have a bit of the spunk that you aren’t expecting, but love, to see.
#16 You have your own style and aren’t defined by trendy. Cute girls wear what they want and look good in what they wear. No fashion to slave, a cute girl pulls off a sweatshirt with stirrup pants if she feels good in them. Nothing says trendy about cute, but then again, there is no such thing as cute going out of style either.
#17 You look as beautiful waking up as you do going to bed. A natural beauty, you wake up looking as beautiful as when you go to bed. No pretenses, you don’t shock the guy you are with by being someone different in the morning than who went to the bathroom to take their makeup off the night before. You are just you: beautiful, charming, and sweet.
#18 You don’t take yourself too seriously. Cute girls aren’t likely to set the world on fire nor are they likely to wage war. Not trying to set an agenda, stand up for a cause that is irritating, or go overboard supporting something to the point of being out of control, the cute girl simply lives in the moment.
#19 You can be one of the guys and totally hang. A cute girl throws on a jersey and pretends to watch any game or be any team’s fan. Comfortable in jeans and a t-shirt, a cute girl can be one of the guys with no problem. They aren’t trying to impress anyone, or seem awkward because they don’t fit in. They are just cute all by themselves.
#20 You aren’t worried about breaking a nail. Cute girls are in the mix. They aren’t concerned about skinny dipping because of ruining their makeup or not wanting to hike because they’ll perspire. A cute girl is ready for any adventure and takes on the biggest challenge without a problem or care in the world.