When people talk ugly to you, let them be. Instead, we should be more concerned about daily building up our personal values.
Who can find a virtuous woman? For her price is far above rubies! (Proverbs 31:10) A woman of virtues and values is indispensable!
If you are constantly building up yourself, you get to a point where nothing negative moves you anymore. Because you know what you got! Do the right things and keep growing, and then you won’t need to bother about what others think of you.