Don’t get me wrong, your 20s are great. You are young, tender, beautiful and filled with hope.
You are open to and welcome new experiences–even bad ones. You feel invincible, carefree and grown up. And you get to do things your way.
And while your 20s are a blast, being “wide-eyed and bushy tailed” gets old–and a bit hazardous.
Your 30’s are here and it’s going to be awesome! Here’s why:
1. You become truly beautiful
Women in their 20s are young and hot and even though youth is starting to gradually fade, women in their 30s began to fully embody true beauty.
Once you hit 30 you have a firm grasp that beauty is more than just skin deep.
The eyes of a woman in her 30s are no longer wide and innocent. They now have a depth brought on by experience and the wisdom that only comes through age. Your dress is still sexy but it has moved from overly revealing to demur, classy and a bit more seductive.
There is a bit more mystery to women in their 30s than the 20 somethings–and intrigue is hot.
2. Women in their 30s have developed a strong sense of self
When you hit 30 you know who you are–or at least have a better idea. By the time you reach 30, you have experienced enough to understand who you are as a person.
You are in tune with what you can tolerate and what you will not. You’ve lost some of the urge to follow the “it” crowd and you do what suits you best. You are less afraid of being different and your need to “fit in” has definitely dissipated. The phrase “do you–Boo,” has become your guiding philosophy.
3. Women in their 30s are more focused and goal oriented
When I hit 30, I was in full stride in my career and relationship. I had a better sense of what I wanted in all aspects of life and my decisions were tailored to reach my goals.
I knew I wanted to live a life free from debt and financial worry and I wanted to retire while I was still young enough to look decent in a bathing suit. I structured my life, family and finances to meet these goals.
In your 20s having clear focus and being goal oriented is a bit more difficult because you feel young and being a responsible adult still isn’t high on your list of priorities.
When you hit 30, there is definitely a shift in your thinking. It’s like you can actually hear the clock ticking and you know it’s time to get things done.
4. Women in their 30s are better in relationships
An amazing thing happened when I hit 30–I fully realized life is not all about me. I now better understand balance and that translates into healthier relationships. You become a better daughter, friend, spouse or girlfriend and mother.
By 30 you don’t have it all figured out but you do have a firm grasp on what you don’t want in a relationship.
You are able to look past those sexy abs and full head of hair in search for an individual that is compatible with you in all aspects of life.
5. Women in their 30s are more content and settled
Everything is no longer the end of the world. You have learned to pick your battles, your friends and the drama you allow into your life. You are content to just “Netflix and chill,” in lieu of bar hopping and partying every weekend.
You understand that routine is a normal part of your existence and have accepted that a lot of life is of getting up every morning, following your routine and the doing it all over again the next day. AND that thought no longer provokes a panic attack.
6. Women in their 30s have wisdom cultivated by experience
By the time I reached 30, I had seen a lot and done a lot. I was married, had finished college, was working in the career field of my choice, and had spent time traveling abroad.
I experienced multiple highs and lows through each of those journeys and by the time I hit 30, I was no longer making the same mistakes and my thought patterns and approach to life had changed.
Experiences stick with you and each experience alters you just a bit. Thirty is the time you settle into who you are and become more aware of the world around you.
You have learned some things–and though you don’t know everything–you know enough not to ever wish you were 21 again.
7. Women in their 30s no longer live with wreck- less abandon but take calculated risk
In your 30s you have more to lose and the memory of past pains help you to be a bit more selective in your risk taking. You’ve gone from careless risks to being cautious and calculating. You are smarter, wiser and understand that time is precious.
The choice of whether or not to quit your job and run away with Raul to become a unicorn farmer is so much easier now that you are 30. You already know how that story ends