You forge your own destiny — it’s that simple. Instead of wasting your time on thinking about how others around you got lucky, you should take matters into your own hands and live your life exactly how you want.
It’s all about being determined, really. We all daydream and have desires, and those who are actually happy make those wishes come true by themselves. Forming a realistic vision that’s based on a list of your life priorities is definitely a start
When we daydream about the things we want, it’s often based on material items, like having a car that’s crazy expensive or having a closet full of haute couture clothes.
All of this is irrelevant in the grand scheme of things, but it’s quite human to want material possessions. However, the best way to attain happiness is by focusing on things that actually matter and see the bigger picture, so that you can understand all its puzzle pieces.
1. Feed Your Mind
For your mind to be happy and healthy, it needs to be well fed. You spend your whole life learning, but it’s important to direct all that lifelong education the right way.
The fact is that your choice of education already got you to a certain point, but that doesn’t mean that you have to develop only a certain skillset.
Besides, you can’t know if you’re any good at something if you don’t try it, which is why my sincere suggestion is to experiment and spend your life trying out new things that look fun and exciting.
As far as I’m concerned, and as many great minds have agreed, reading is a gateway to happiness. Skillfully written books allow you to take a place of another person and they help you develop an understanding for the world and those who differ from you.
“A reader lives a thousand lives before he dies. The man who never reads lives only one.”
—George RR Martin.
2. Take Care of Your Body
A fortress that keeps your health safe, your body is a very important factor that will determine your happiness.
The quality of your lifestyle does depend on the numbers on your bank account, sure, but the greatest factor is your health. Ask any person that has health issues and I’m sure that all of them will tell you the very same — the only priority and wish of an unhealthy person is to find their way back to health.
3. Embellish Your Environment
Although it can be a bit difficult to comprehend because it’s one of those daily things we don’t pay much attention to, the appearance of your home has a say in your overall life satisfaction.
It’s quite simple if you only think about it — spending time surrounded by things you don’t like is a source of negativity that needs to be avoided.
Naturally, you immediately thought about money now, but it’s not necessary to spend a whole fortune in order to start liking your home. My suggestion is to start with your bedroom because it’s imperative that you turn it into a stress free zone.
Begin by browsing online and searching for bedroom ideas — you’d be surprised with what you can do only by properly applying colors.
4. Enjoy Your Job
Not all of us are fortunate to have the perfect career, but until you’re ready to take that scary step and pursue the job you actually want, you should find ways to enjoy your current one in any way you can.
I believe that every career can be fulfilling, just as long as you find a meaningful perspective of what your job actually represents and what good comes from what you do.
This way, you will be able to see how you contribute to society and I’m sure this knowledge will help establish fresh enthusiasm and enable you to enjoy the time you spend in your office.
5. Secure Your Future
Thinking about what lies ahead is scary mostly because the universe has a very good sense of humor when it comes to our plans.
However, there are things that are in your power and you can do them and take control of your future life. True happiness isn’t in money, although our society revolves around it.
Developing a plan for your future will secure your happiness, and it’s never too early to start thinking about your pension fund.
I already mentioned how I consider different ages to be milestones, which is a great way to set goals in front of you with reasonable deadlines. You need to put on your thinking hat and find out what you want in life, what needs to be done in order to have that and how much time it takes to achieve those goals.
The hardest thing about all these steps is probably the change of mindset necessary for them to work out.
The bottom line is that you deserve to be happy and that you should do everything to make good things happen for you, even if you need to change the way you think. Take your time and allow your mind to embrace this change — everything that comes afterwards will be a piece of one delicious cake