A man who is invested takes the time to get to know you well, and his gifts will be a testament to his expert grasp of your likes and dislikes. The reason he bought you that travel guide to Hong Kong even though you only mentioned offhand that you want to visit? Because he pays attention, that’s why.
2. He makes plans for the future
If he makes arrangements for a winter ski trip in May, you can be sure that he plans on having you in his life for some time yet. Commitment-phobes will be scared of making plans for the next weekend, let alone six months from now!
3. He wants all his closest people to meet you
You know he’s invested when he doesn’t treat his “friend time” and “girlfriend time” as mutually exclusive. If he wants you over for the holidays or can’t wait for you to have dinner with his buddies, it’s a sign he wants them to love you as much as he does.
4. He posts pics of you on his Instagram
Instagram has become an unofficial dating profile, which means if he’s advertising that he’s taken, he really doesn’t mind everyone knowing. And unlike planning a vacation, social media is a public declaration of his devotion.